In Chapter 1 we discussed the ability to talk and listen. In this Chapter, we will try to understand
the question: "Why do men and women in the process of communication there are so many
problems? From the outset, we must clarify one basic principle: men mood — NY in the solution
of problems, and women on the construction site of the nest. Mysterious women's language still
you — leads of itself, and incredibly annoying most of the men.
The five questions below regarding the female manner of communication have tormented men
since the beginning of time.
- Why do women talk so much?
- Why do women always have to discuss problems?
- Why are women so inclined to exaggerate?
- Why women are impossible to convince of anything?
- Why do women always want to find out everything to the smallest detail?
Women, on the other hand, wonder why the men socialize in such a mysterious way. They are
tormented by other questions:
- Why are men so straightforward?
- Why of them account for all lift, words — but ticks?
- Why are men so often silent?
- Why men are never interested in the details?
- Why do men always give advice, though this one does not ask?
All these questions are answered. If you follow certain rules (or at least do not violate them),
communication between you and the partner will be much more effective.
The rules of communication between women and Men:
1.Strive to simplify everything as much as possible.
2.Never talk about a few things at once.
3.Speak in short, understandable sentences.
4 .Limit yourself to the very essence.
5 be Frank in saying what you have to say.
6.Don't interrupt a man when he speaks.
- Tell him what you would like to talk about or that you need to discuss a serious topic!
Never be silent in order to punish the man.
Men love silence and your silence will be a reward for him, not a punishment.
Rules of communication between men and women:
- Just listen, limit yourself to WOW and the appropriate facial expressions.
- Try not to offer ready-made solutions.
- Express your desires in an indirect form and Never forget about the magic word — Please!
- Don't take every word a woman says literally!
- For women it is important not what you say, and your interest in is, about than says she.
- Never tell a woman she's exaggerating. Don't pull her in front of other people.
- Always give her more details than the other man would.